When you are in love for the first time, it is often difficult to keep your panties on. Some years later, however, you won’t feel to take your pants down much! It should not be that way. You can keep the excitement of your sex life. Don’t plan sex for later, do it when you feel excited: Even the most passionate couples often find that the sex desire disappears in the midst of day to day boring family life, cooking and the same conversations in a messy kitchen.